The modern dating landscape is louder than it has ever been, yet finding a genuine connection feels harder than ever. At Two Asian Matchmakers, I speak daily with relationship-minded women who are exhausted by the randomness of online dating. They aren’t looking for another swipe platform or a high-volume dating app; they are looking for an intentional, selective process built entirely around compatibility and shared life goals.

Since founding this network in 2009, I’ve learned that lasting relationships don’t happen by accident. They require clarity around values, communication styles, and emotional readiness. This philosophy guides our private network.

Why Successful Men Choose Private Matchmaking

To understand how our network benefits women, it helps to understand the types of men who seek out our services. The male clients in our network are accomplished professionals: entrepreneurs, corporate executives, consultants, and creatives.

These men do not struggle to date because they lack options. Rather, they are highly frustrated by modern casual dating culture and the immense time required to filter through shallow online profiles. Many are navigating busy careers, while others are returning to dating after a divorce and want a highly discreet, intentional way to meet someone genuinely ready for a committed partnership.

By walking away from high-volume dating platforms, these professionals choose a private system that prioritizes alignment, emotional maturity, and long-term compatibility over short-term attention.

An Inside Look at Our Women’s Matchmaking Network

Our private network is uniquely curated for women who value discretion and want an intentional alternative to public dating profiles. The women who find the greatest success within our network typically share a common foundation. They are:

Behind the Scenes: How the Introduction Process Works

Unlike standard agencies that rush introductions to hit monthly quotas, our process is highly selective, deeply guided, and paced around genuine compatibility. Here is exactly how we evaluate matches:

1. The Private Profile Submission

The journey begins when a woman submits a private profile detailing her background, lifestyle, character values, and partner preferences. This gives me the initial context needed to understand how she approaches long-term relationship goals.

2. Deep Compatibility Evaluation

Every submission is personally reviewed by me. While physical attraction is a natural prerequisite, long-term stability relies on deeper pillars. I evaluate potential matches based on communication styles, lifestyle alignment, emotional stability, and shared relationship values.

3. Hand-Selected Introductions

When a profound mutual fit is identified between a network member and a retained client, we coordinate the introduction completely behind the scenes. We handle the scheduling, facilitate the communication, manage the date logistics, and gather feedback from both individuals afterward. This eliminates the guesswork and creates a respectful, comfortable environment.

What to Expect After Joining the Network

It is important to understand that joining our private network is a passive opportunity rather than a traditional active membership. Because our standards for alignment are exceptionally high, joining does not guarantee an immediate introduction.

Instead, it places your profile in our secure system to be continuously considered for current and incoming matchmaking clients. Some women match with a client almost immediately, while others may not hear from us for several months until the right connection aligns. We only reach out when the compatibility is clear.

Dispelling Common Questions About the Network

• Is this a public platform? Absolutely not. Privacy and discretion are central to my work. Profiles are strictly confidential, reviewed only internally, and are never displayed publicly.

• Is there a fee for women to join the network? Joining our women’s matchmaking network is entirely complimentary.

• How long does the matching process take? Because our approach is highly personalized, timelines vary entirely based on client alignment and mutual relationship goals.

A Note from Matchmaker May

Before entering the matchmaking field full-time in 2009, I spent years navigating corporate America as an Asian woman. That experience gave me a deep, firsthand understanding of the unique cultural and professional dynamics that high-achieving adults experience in modern dating. Over nearly two decades, I have expanded my network across the United States and internationally, partnering with elite professionals to build a matchmaking style that rejects transactional dating in favor of real, emotional maturity.

Modern dating offers endless options, but very little clarity. If you are ready to trade emotional burnout for an intentional, private approach to finding love, I invite you to share your story with us.

There are many different personality types in the dating world. Some men are naturally outgoing, while others are more reserved, thoughtful, and introspective.

Over the years, I’ve found that men who are more introverted or shy often make exceptional partners. They tend to be grounded, loyal, and deeply intentional about relationships. Many are accomplished in their careers; engineers, entrepreneurs, consultants, and professionals who have invested years building a meaningful life.

At a certain point, however, success in business or career doesn’t automatically translate into success in dating.

For many of the men I work with, the challenge isn’t a lack of desire for a relationship. It’s the environment. Modern dating often rewards speed, volume, and surface-level interactions, things that don’t always align with a more thoughtful or reserved personality.

Apps can feel exhausting. Conversations can feel forced. And the process can quickly become discouraging.

This is where a more intentional approach makes a difference.

My role is to create a setting where you don’t have to compete for attention or navigate unclear intentions. I take the time to understand who you are, what you value, and what you’re truly looking for in a partner. From there, I introduce you to women who are aligned, not just in interests, but in mindset and long-term goals.

You don’t need to be the most outgoing person in the room to build a meaningful relationship. You simply need the right introduction, in the right environment, with the right support.

If you’re someone who has focused on building your career and is now ready to find a partner, and you’d prefer a more thoughtful, guided approach, I’d be happy to learn more about you.

Many women ask me this question privately:
“Is it okay for me to ask him out?”

And just as important:
“When is the right time to do it?”

If you recently had a wonderful first date, the conversation flowed easily, there was genuine laughter, and you sensed mutual interest, it’s natural to feel excited about seeing him again. You may also wonder whether you should wait for him to make the next move or take the initiative yourself.

The truth is, there isn’t a single rule that applies to every situation. Modern dating is more flexible than it used to be, and healthy relationships are built on mutual interest, communication, and confidence.

In many cases, it is perfectly appropriate to ask him out for a second date.

And sometimes, doing so can feel refreshing, for both of you.

If the First Date Went Well, It’s Okay to Take the Lead

When a connection feels natural, expressing interest in seeing someone again is not a sign of desperation. It’s a sign of clarity.

Many of the accomplished men I work with lead demanding professional lives. They appreciate sincerity, directness, and emotional maturity. When a woman shows genuine interest, it often creates momentum rather than pressure.

You might consider reaching out if:

A simple message can be enough. It doesn’t need to be elaborate or overly clever.

Something as straightforward as:

“I had a lovely time meeting you. I’d enjoy seeing you again, would you be open to dinner next week?”

This approach feels confident, warm, and respectful.

Timing Matters More Than Perfection

Many people worry about choosing the “perfect” moment to reach out. In reality, what matters most is authenticity.

You don’t need to wait days or follow the rigid dating rules. If you’re feeling positive about the connection, reaching out within a reasonable time frame, often within a few days, keeps the momentum alive while the experience is still fresh.

Healthy relationships tend to develop when both people feel comfortable expressing interest without overthinking every step.

Confidence Is Attractive, for Both Men and Women

One of the most common misconceptions in dating is that initiative should only come from one side. In my experience, the strongest relationships begin when both people show a genuine effort.

Confidence does not mean being aggressive.
It means being clear, kind, and emotionally present.

When you feel comfortable making the move, you demonstrate:

These qualities are deeply attractive, especially to men who are serious about a long-term partnership.

A Gentle Reminder About Mutual Interest

While taking the initiative can be positive, it’s also important to pay attention to reciprocity.

A healthy dynamic includes:

If the interest is mutual, the next step will feel natural. If it isn’t, that information is valuable too; it helps you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Dating is not about chasing.
It’s about discovering compatibility.

You Don’t Have to Navigate Dating Alone

At Two Asian Matchmakers, my team and I work closely with women who are open to meeting relationship-minded men in a thoughtful, respectful environment.

Every introduction is handled privately and intentionally. We focus on compatibility, shared values, and long-term potential, not guesswork.

If you’re interested in meeting accomplished men who are committed, I invite you to take the next step.

Joining our private network is complimentary for women, and your information is always handled with discretion.

When you choose to work with an Asian matchmaker, the experience is often more than you expect.

It’s not simply about meeting someone new. It’s about gaining clarity, about what you value, what you’re drawn to, and what kind of relationship you’re truly ready for.

If you’re specifically interested in dating an Asian partner, it’s important to work with someone who is deeply connected to that community. That doesn’t mean someone outside the culture cannot help, but in my experience, access and understanding matter. Relationships are shaped by culture, family dynamics, and shared values. Being immersed in that world allows me to make more thoughtful, aligned introductions.

So what does it actually feel like to work with an Asian matchmaker?

It begins with a conversation. I take the time to understand your background, your lifestyle, and what you’re looking for in a partner, not just on paper, but in real life. From there, I draw from a network I’ve built over many years, through personal connections, referrals, and long-standing relationships both in the United States and internationally.

I work with women in Los Angeles, across major U.S. cities, and through trusted matchmaker partners throughout Asia, including Hong Kong, Japan, and beyond. The world is more connected than ever, and many women today are open to building a relationship across cities or even countries when there is genuine compatibility.

It’s important to clarify something here.

The women in my network, both in the U.S. and abroad, are accomplished, independent, and intentional about relationships. They are not participating in anything transactional or superficial. Many have established careers, strong family values, and full lives of their own. Some are open to relocating for the right partner. Others prefer a partner who is open to travel or relocation. Every introduction is based on mutual interest, shared goals, and long-term compatibility.

When you work with me, you’re not browsing profiles or wondering who is real. There is no swiping, no uncertainty, and no guesswork.

Every introduction is intentional.

I personally vet each woman, understand her relationship goals, and confirm her interest before presenting a match. When there is alignment on both sides, my team and I handle the logistics, so you can focus on what actually matters: the experience of meeting someone and exploring the connection.

Behind the scenes, I’m also collaborating with a network of trusted matchmakers across different regions, expanding your access far beyond what you could reach on your own.

This is a curated, private, and highly personalized process.

And for many of my clients, it becomes not just a more efficient way to date, but a more meaningful one.

A Conversation About Preference, Culture, and Intentional Dating

One topic that occasionally comes up in conversations around Asian dating is the phrase “yellow fever.” Over the years, I’ve noticed that many people feel hesitant about discussing the attraction to Asian women because the term itself often carries a negative assumption.

But in my experience as a matchmaker, attraction is usually much more nuanced than people make it out to be.

People naturally gravitate toward certain qualities, lifestyles, personalities, and cultural dynamics. Some men are drawn to women who share similar family values, communication styles, traditions, or outlooks on relationships. Others simply feel more comfortable and connected within certain cultural environments because of past experiences, upbringing, or compatibility.

That does not automatically make the attraction inappropriate or insincere.

I work with many men who are genuinely relationship-minded and happen to be especially drawn to Asian women. Some have previously dated Asian women. Some lived or worked in Asia. Some value the importance of family, femininity, education, or cultural compatibility. Others simply feel a natural connection and comfort within Asian culture.

At the same time, I also work with Asian women who specifically prefer Western men, Asian men, or men from certain backgrounds because of shared lifestyle preferences, emotional compatibility, or long-term relationship goals.

Preferences exist on all sides.

What matters most is the intention behind the attraction.

There is a very big difference between appreciating someone’s culture, values, and individuality versus reducing someone to a stereotype. Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, emotional connection, shared values, chemistry, and genuine compatibility, not fantasy.

At Two Asian Matchmakers, my focus has always been intentional introductions between people who are serious about building meaningful relationships.

Many of the men I work with are accomplished professionals who are simply tired of dating apps, casual dating culture, and disconnected experiences. They are looking for something more grounded, personal, and aligned with the kind of relationship they ultimately want to build.

Over the years, I’ve built a large private network of Asian women across the United States and internationally. Every introduction is handled thoughtfully, discreetly, and with long-term compatibility in mind.

And if I believe another matchmaker or service would better serve your goals, I’m always happy to point you in the right direction.

At the end of the day, attraction alone is never enough to sustain a relationship. Shared values, emotional maturity, communication, and genuine partnership matter far more.

That’s the part of dating I care most about.

Dating Photos Are Important

When I work with clients, one of the first things I often notice is how much their photos influence the quality of matches they attract.

Before someone reads your bio or understands your story, they see your images.

And in today’s dating world, especially online, that first impression carries weight.

The goal isn’t to look “perfect.”
It’s looking like yourself at your best, naturally and confidently.

Start with the right intention

Good dating photos are not old-school glamor shots, and they’re not overly staged or heavily edited images either.

What works best is simple:

 • Natural light
 • Clean, relaxed settings
 • A genuine expression
 • And a sense of ease in your body

I always tell clients, your photos should feel like a real moment in your life, not a performance.

Avoid the common mistakes

There are a few patterns I see often, and they usually don’t work in your favor:

 • Bathroom selfies
 • Car selfies before you’re about to drive somewhere
 • Overly filtered or heavily edited images
 • Photos where your face is unclear or too far away

These types of photos tend to reduce trust, even if unintentionally.

And in dating, trust is everything.

Learn your angles and presence

Everyone has angles that feel more natural and flattering.

You don’t need to overthink it, but it helps to be aware.

A simple way to improve your photos is to experiment a little:

 • Use a phone timer or a selfie stick to practice
 • Take photos in different lighting throughout the day
 • Pay attention to posture and how you carry yourself
 • Notice which expressions feel most like you

This isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about presenting yourself clearly and confidently.

Don’t rely only on selfies

If you can, ask a friend to help take a few photos.

Often, people look more relaxed when they’re not holding the camera themselves.

And if you’re open to it, professional photos can make a noticeable difference.

Not because they make you look like someone else, but because they capture you in a more intentional, well-composed way.

A strong profile usually has a mix:

 • A few natural and casual shots
 • A few slightly more polished images
 • And at least one full-body photo

This combination gives clarity and builds trust quickly.

Be honest with your presentation

One of the most important things I share with clients is this:

Your photos should reflect who you are today.

Not a version you hope someone will meet later.

Avoid cropping out your body to hide proportions or using outdated images that no longer represent you.

If you’re working on your health or confidence, that’s a personal journey, and it’s always worth supporting.

But in dating, honesty creates better outcomes for everyone involved.

The right match is not built on impression management; it’s built on clarity.

A simple way to think about it

When I review dating photos, I always come back to this question:

“Does this feel like someone I could genuinely meet in real life and recognize instantly?”

If the answer is yes, you’re on the right track.

If you want support

We often help clients refine their dating presence, including photography and image guidance.

For those who prefer a more structured approach, we also offer in-house photo sessions designed specifically for dating profiles.

The session is $300 and includes a range of natural, high-quality images with two wardrobe changes.

If you’re interested, you can reach out, and we’ll walk you through the details.

When you’re sitting across from someone on a first date, your actions often communicate more than your words.

One thing I’ve noticed over the years working with successful professionals is that many men focus heavily on what to say during a date, but overlook the smaller details that quietly shape attraction, comfort, and emotional connection.

When dating Asian women, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, and simple courtesy often leave a stronger impression than trying too hard to impress someone.

Across the table, she’s paying attention not only to the conversation, but also to how you carry yourself, how present you are, and whether she feels respected and valued in your company.

The good news is that genuine gentlemanly behavior still stands out.

Make Her Feel Like the Only Person in the Room

One of the easiest ways to create connection on a first date is to be fully present.

That means maintaining focus on the conversation, listening carefully, and avoiding distractions around you. Many women notice very quickly when a man’s attention drifts across the room or toward his phone.

Intentional dating starts with intentional presence.

A woman wants to feel that you are genuinely interested in getting to know her, not simply going through the motions of another date.

Maintain Comfortable Eye Contact

Eye contact communicates confidence, sincerity, and attentiveness.

When she’s speaking, stay engaged and present. When you speak, look at her naturally rather than scanning the room. Small behaviors like this help create emotional comfort and trust early on.

That said, it’s also important to understand cultural nuance.

Understand That She May Be More Reserved at First

Many Asian women are warm, expressive, and outgoing once they feel comfortable. However, depending on her background and personality, she may initially come across as more reserved or modest during a first meeting.

In some Asian cultures, prolonged eye contact or overly forward behavior can feel too intense early on.

So if she seems slightly shy or coy at first, don’t immediately assume there’s no interest. Sometimes she’s simply taking time to feel comfortable and assess the connection naturally.

Patience and emotional awareness go a long way.

Traditional Courtesy Still Matters

One thing I consistently hear from women is how refreshing it feels when a man demonstrates simple courtesy and consideration.

Opening the door for her. Walking her to the car. Pulling out her chair. Arriving on time. Keeping your phone away during dinner.

These things may sound small, but they communicate respect, maturity, and intention.

And in today’s dating culture, those qualities stand out more than ever. First date etiquette doesn’t stop when the date ends. Knowing how to end a date with an Asian woman successfully can leave a strong final impression and help reinforce the connection you’ve built throughout the evening.

Many successful men assume attraction is built through impressive stories, status, or achievements. While those things may create interest, what often creates emotional connection is how a woman feels around you.

Calm.
Comfortable.
Seen.
Respected.

Focus on the Experience, Not Performance

One mistake I see too often is men approaching dates like interviews or evaluations.

The best first dates feel relaxed, natural, and emotionally present.

You do not need to impress her with a perfect performance. You simply need to create an environment where both of you can comfortably discover whether there is genuine compatibility and chemistry.

Dating should not feel stressful or transactional.

It should feel human.

Final Thoughts

The men who tend to do best in dating are not always the loudest, flashiest, or most polished.

Often, they are the men who make a woman feel comfortable, valued, and emotionally safe in their presence.

When dating Asian women, kindness, attentiveness, and genuine respect are incredibly attractive qualities.

Simple courtesy still goes a very long way.

If you’re tired of dating apps and ready for a more intentional approach to meeting relationship-minded Asian women, I invite you to learn more about our private matchmaking services.

We personally curate introductions for successful professionals seeking meaningful, long-term relationships.

Spotlight on May Bugenhagen, Founder of Two Asian Matchmakers

After more than 17 years as a matchmaker, I’ve had the privilege of helping thousands of singles navigate modern dating and build meaningful relationships. Over the years, I’ve been asked many questions about matchmaking, dating in Los Angeles, and what it really takes to find a lasting partnership.

Here are some of the questions I hear most often.

Why did you become an Asian matchmaker?

I became a matchmaker because I genuinely believe there is a better way to meet people than relying solely on dating apps and chance encounters.

Throughout my career, I’ve met incredible women who are accomplished, kind, relationship-minded, and looking for genuine partnership. I’ve also met many successful men who want the same thing but struggle to find compatible partners through traditional dating channels.

I saw an opportunity to create a more personal, intentional, and dignified way for people to meet.

As a matchmaker, I help bridge that gap by introducing clients to people they may never have crossed paths with otherwise. My role is to carefully screen, vet, and curate introductions so my clients can focus on building a connection rather than spending countless hours searching.

I truly believe life is richer when you have someone special to share it with, and helping people find that connection continues to be one of the most rewarding parts of my work.

What did you do before becoming a matchmaker?

Before launching Two Asian Matchmakers, I spent years in the corporate world working for a Fortune 500 company.

Interestingly, many of the skills I used then are the same skills I use today. My background included recruiting, interviewing, coaching, and evaluating people, all of which translate naturally into matchmaking.

The difference is that instead of helping companies find the right employees, I now help individuals find meaningful relationships.

Of course, matchmaking also requires intuition, emotional intelligence, and an understanding of human connection. Those are skills that become stronger with experience.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

I often say I believe in “like at first sight.”

Physical attraction certainly plays a role in dating, and first impressions matter. When people are excited about someone they meet, they naturally become more engaged, attentive, and present during the conversation.

What I believe is even more important, however, is how you show up on a date.

One of the qualities I admire most is when someone remains kind, respectful, and genuinely interested in getting to know another person, regardless of whether immediate chemistry exists.

A great dater understands that every date is an opportunity to practice communication, curiosity, and connection.

I often remind my clients that relationships are built over time. Attraction may open the door, but compatibility, shared values, and emotional connection are what help relationships last.

Who is your ideal client?

I typically work with successful, relationship-minded men who are ready to prioritize finding a life partner.

Many of my clients are professionals, entrepreneurs, executives, physicians, consultants, engineers, and business owners. They are financially stable, emotionally mature, and serious about building a long-term relationship.

Most are between their mid-30s and 60s.

What they often have in common is that they are busy, value their time, and have grown frustrated with modern dating. Many have spent years on dating apps and are looking for a more intentional approach.

The women in our network are equally impressive. They are accomplished, relationship-minded, feminine, confident, and looking for meaningful partnerships built on mutual respect, shared values, and genuine compatibility.

How do you meet and recruit quality singles?

One of the advantages of being in this industry for many years is that my network continues to grow through trusted relationships and referrals.

I meet wonderful women through professional networks, social events, charitable organizations, referrals, community connections, and introductions from people who know our work.

Many women also join our network directly through our website.

Most of the men who become clients discover us online, through referrals, or through recommendations from friends and colleagues who have worked with us in the past.

I’ve always believed that referrals are one of the greatest compliments a business can receive. When clients trust us enough to recommend our services to people they care about, it reinforces the value of the work we do.

What is the most challenging part of being a matchmaker?

Every client is unique, which is part of what makes matchmaking both challenging and rewarding.

One area that often requires additional support is helping someone build confidence after years of dating frustrations, a divorce, or difficult relationship experiences.

Sometimes a client simply needs guidance, encouragement, or a new perspective.

I enjoy helping people recognize their strengths and become more confident communicators and daters. Watching someone grow throughout the process and ultimately build a successful relationship is one of the most fulfilling aspects of my work.

Is it difficult to be single in Los Angeles?

Dating can be challenging in any city, including Los Angeles.

What I’ve learned over the years is that mindset plays an enormous role in dating success.

The singles who tend to have the best experiences are those who remain open, optimistic, and willing to meet people outside their usual expectations.

On the other hand, cynicism and frustration can create barriers that make dating much harder than it needs to be.

Los Angeles offers incredible opportunities to meet people from diverse backgrounds, cultures, and experiences. The key is approaching the process with curiosity, patience, and a positive attitude.

What advice would you give to single people in Los Angeles?

One of the biggest mistakes I see is people becoming so focused on their careers that they stop making time for relationships.

Finding a meaningful partnership rarely happens by accident. Like any important goal, it requires intention and effort.

My advice is simple:

Continue putting yourself in situations where you can meet new people.

Say yes to opportunities.

Remain open-minded.

Go on dates, even when someone doesn’t perfectly match the image you’ve created in your mind.

Some of the happiest couples I’ve worked with began as introductions neither person initially expected.

For men, I encourage continuous personal growth. Develop your interests, improve your communication skills, stay socially engaged, and approach dating with confidence and curiosity.

For women, I encourage openness. Sometimes the person who becomes your life partner arrives in a package you didn’t anticipate.

Ultimately, finding love is not about perfection. It’s about connection, compatibility, and being willing to give someone the chance to surprise you.

Los Angeles Asian Matchmaker:  Should You Hire One?  los angeles asian matchmaker

There is just one Los Angeles Asian matchmaker / matchmaking company in LA

Would you like this Rabbit year to finally be the year when you connect with that dream guy or girl through a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker?  I hope so.  We can help at Two Asian Matchmakers.  We love helping singles find their ideal partner.  We know a lot of Asian professionals who are single climb the corporate ladder in their 20’s and 30’s in search of money, security, or trying to impress their parents, but they neglect their love lives until one day they wake up and think, “Whoa, where did the time go?”  That is when they usually seek us out and as Los Angeles Asian matchmakers, we can help!

1.  To Hire One Or Not?

If you are asking, “Should I hire a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker?”  The answer is within you.  Ok, that was cheesy.  I was just kidding.  Well, you should hire a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker only if you need help in increasing your odds at finding love.  It’s tougher now to find great singles now that you are not in college.  I remember I thought I’d find my husband in at University of California in Santa Barbara.  I didn’t.  In the workforce, you can’t just date your co-workers.  It’s not right.  Hiring a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker just means you are expanding your social circle so you meet different people who you otherwise wouldn’t meet.  Some of our Asian men and women clients just aren’t into the bar scene anymore.  They are great catches and some are diamonds in the rough when presented in front of someone for a one-on-one date.  They just don’t like crowded group settings.  Who can blame them?  Working with a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker is an awesome experience because you personally are going to work with someone who will know your deepest secrets, long term goals, and true desires when it comes to selecting a mate.  I understand that education is important to you and that hopefully he or she has at least a BA or Masters.  Education is valued greatly in the Asian culture so I get it.  You don’t have to explain it to me because I will know where you are coming from.  Your partner should be gainfully employed and honor traditional values if those things are important to you.  I get it, I’m Asian, too.  You will be honest with your Los Angeles Asian matchmaker because there is no judgment on our part.  We will be truthfully honest with you regarding your expectations and what you need to work on.  If you are a bad dater, yes, we will tell you and help you through that.  Sometimes it’s something you don’t want to hear, but in the end, it helps you become successful in navigating through the dating scene in Los Angeles.

2. You Need Someone With Knowledge and Expertise

There are many reasons why you should you hire a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker.  Well, you would call an experienced plumber to fix a broken toilet.  You would have a dentist look at your toothache and do a root canal and wouldn’t trust your neighbor to do it.  You would call the local electrician to rewire your kitchen when you are remodeling.  So, it’s easy to understand why you would hire a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker to help you find the one in this crazy city of Los Angeles.  A credible Los Angeles Asian matchmaker is someone who does this full time as their exclusive trade.  Be cautious of “matchmakers” out there who are also fashion stylists or have another 9-5 job.  They can’t fully commit to serving you and will not take their search for you seriously.  Credible Los Angeles Asian matchmakers would share with you their direct line, if not cell phone number, and area accessible.  True Los Angeles Asian matchmakers have a large current database of many eligible Asian relationship-minded singles and will opt to recruit for you.  If you don’t hire a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker, you can only hope that your friends and family are keeping you on the top of their minds when they come across a great single.  But don’t fret, good thing your Los Angeles Asian matchmakers are!

3. Choosing The Right One For You

How do you choose a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker?  Plan to interview the Los Angeles Asian matchmakers and see who you click with and feel comfortable speaking with.  The Los Angeles Asian matchmaker is going to be working with you for six months to a year so you want to make sure it’s a relationship you won’t regret.  Can you relate to this person?  Are your beliefs in who you are seeking aligning with who your Los Angels Asian matchmaker thinks you should be seeking?  You need to both be on the same page, otherwise, it won’t be an effective and productive relationship.  Are you going to get the personalize attention and service you need in the Los Angeles matchmaker?  We know our clients enjoy working with us because they like the personalized service we give and refer us their friends.  Is the company you want to work with claiming they are large?  If so, that just means they won’t have time to work with you.  At Two Asian Matchmakers, we do not claim we are the biggest or that we have tens of thousands of singles in our Date-A-Base, but we know we are reachable at all times, have thousand of quality active singles in our Date-A-Base, and work very hard at establishing trusted affiliates to deliver world class customer service to our clients.

4. Do Your Homework

You need to do your homework on researching a Los Angeles Asian matchmaker like the checking out the Better Business Bureau, online complaints, and positive testimonials.  Be prepared with questions for your Los Angeles Asian matchmaker so get all the answers you need before making an informed decision.  A great Los Angeles Asian matchmaker will make the time to get to interview you, know you, and understand you.  It is in their best interest to get to know you so they can successfully screen potential partners for you.  After the introductions, they should get post date feedback for you, and then fine tune the search according to your feedback, values, preferences, and goals.

5. How Much Should I Spend?

What does a good Los Angeles Asian matchmaker cost to hire?  The types of services are different at each Los Angeles Asian matchmaking firm.  Usually there is a contract for six or twelve month membership.  Different packages range from $4,000 to $15,000+ depending on what kind of search you want and need.  Do you want to search within Los Angeles area only or out of state/country?  It all depends on how active you want to be, how selective you are or are not, and how much money you want to invest in your future. A Los Angeles Asian matchmaker is not cheap, but it’s a great investment if you are serious about looking for quality introductions. When you think about spending over $400,000 on a house (if you’re lucky!!) and $35,000 on a car, why wouldn’t you spend a few thousand dollars in finding your life partner?