Asian Dating Advice

Asian Dating Advice for Asian Singles:  For Successful Asian Dating

Asian Dating Advice: 

As an Asian matchmaker in Los Angeles, we sure have a ton of Asian dating advice to give.  You can never be armed with too much info to navigate through the Asian dating world.  We received some questions on site so we wanted to address them here.  You can ask any Asian dating question and we love to answer them on our blog.  Please feel free to submit any Asian dating questions to us at  Happy Asian dating!!

Asian Dating Advice #1: 

Asian dating dilemma:  Unfortunately, I am not very “think-outside-the-box” when it comes to Asian dating and taking out Asian women.  I’m Caucasian and I must admit I’m kind of a lazy dater.  I like the usual boring chain restaurants but know that I shouldn’t just be taking my dates to these types of places.  Is it tacky to take a date to a chain restaurant?

Fortunately, in Los Angeles, you have a lot of restaurants to choose from to make you good at Asian dating.  As you are Asian dating or chatting with friends, you can ask them where they think is a good first date place and keep a list.  Always, your favorite hole-in-the-wall restaurant or your cozy neighborhood place is a better idea than a chain restaurant.  When you are not busy Asian dating and your friends and you are going out to eat, you might as well start checking out restaurants to get first date ideas!!  Also, if you do coffee dates, that’s okay, but just try to pick a cozy mom and pop coffee shop and not the chain ones where there is high traffic.  You will be great at Asian dating in no time by having five nice places to take a woman in nearby neighborhoods.  Happy Asian dating!!

Asian Dating Advice #2:  Asian dating dilemma:  I have been out on dates with this great Asian woman recently but it seemed like she was not interested in me or the conversation is awkward. How do I get this cute Asian woman to talk more or at least be more engaged in our conversation?

The success to Asian dating is getting to know her.  Women love it when we get asked questions. It shows interest! Men sometimes don’t realize this is the key to successful Asian dating. You should ask her open-ended questions and hopefully, she’ll reciprocate. If you feel like you’re doing most of the talking, just say, “Gosh, I feel like I’ve been doing so much talking. I want to get to know you more. Tell me about you.” Hopefully, the woman will take the hint. For women and men, don’t lie or exaggerate the truth. It will come back to haunt you later!  Happy Asian dating!!

Asian Dating Advice #3:  Asian dating dilemma:  Where and when’s the best place to meet my future Asian partner?

To be successful at Asian dating, you don’t just seek a partner on the weekends.  Successful Asian dating is not just reserved for Friday and Saturday nights from 9-11p.m.  Any time and any place is a good time to meet someone new.  You can’t be on your phone checking emails or your Facebook account while you are in line at a grocery store or waiting at the DMV.  You don’t want to miss out on human contact when you have a chance to chat someone up.  For you to be successful at Asian dating, you need to seize all opportunities of meeting someone new.  Happy Asian dating!!

Asian Dating Tip #4:  Asian dating dilemma:  I can’t afford an Asian matchmaker, what is another alternative?

Hiring an Asian matchmaker is basically having a third party screen matches for you so you can increase your chances of being successful at Asian dating.  You Asian matchmaker will keep an eye out for you and is constantly looking for a great match for you 24/7. If you cannot afford to hire an Asian matchmaker, you can find your own Asian matchmakers in your life.  You need to let five people you trust in your life know you are single and are looking to meet great Asian singles.  Start by telling them what you are looking for in an ideal Asian partner and what you are okay with and what you are not in a partner.  Tell your ‘matchmakers’ that you are open to being set up with anyone they who meets the qualities you described to them.  However, if the date turns out to be not so great, just tell them thanks for setting you and up but it wasn’t a match.  No matter how bad the date was, just don’t get mad at them for trying to help.  After all, you asked them to set you up.  Happy Asian dating!!

Asian Dating Tip #5:  Asian dating dilemma:  I’ve been dating a great guy for two months now.  We spend all weekends together and one weekday a week after work.  When do you think a couple should have the exclusivity talk?

It’s nice when your relationship is on such a natural course that it just happens you’re your relationship evolves into exclusivity.  You don’t play games with calling each other.  You have long meaningful conversations until the wee hours of the night.  However, it’s not all smiles and sunshine when you don’t know where you stand in a relationship.  The best time to bring up where you stand is before you sleep together.  If you are mature and want this person to be something more, like a boyfriend or husband, than a one night stand, then you should wait until the time feels right to discuss it.  If you jump into bed too soon, men will put you in the “have fun for now” category and not the “potential wife” category. Believe it.  Happy Asian dating!!

By May Hui and Katie Chen

May Hui and Katie Chen are Certified Los Angeles Matchmakers and founded the boutique matchmaking firm Catch Matchmaking in Los Angeles, CA.  Catch Matchmaking specializes in Asian dating when it comes to busy professionals who are relationship and marriage-minded.  These Los Angeles Asian matchmakers then launched their Asian division to better serve the Asian community, which includes giving asian dating advice.

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